- Tue Nov 11, 2014
In a perfect world the head of the home would be the most sensitive one in the house. Well, you already know this, but we don't live in a perfect world!
For most men, sensitivity does not come naturally. Guys just assume that if they are happy and satisfied, then their wives are happy and satisfied. So, while she thinks this selfish behavior should be obvious to him, it really isn't. Our wiring doesn't pick up signals like this very well.
Lord, You know my wife better than I do.
You know her heart and You know her
needs. Show me how to be sensitive to
her desires. Help me be aware of her
feelings that I might serve her better.
I know that in doing so, I am pleasing
- Mon Nov 10, 2014
The world hasn't yet seen what God can do with an army of men free of sexual fervers. You can remain pure so that you might qualify for such an army.
The four requirements necessary to stop masturbating are these:
1. Making a strong decision to no longer "stop short" of God's standards.
2. Joining an accountablity group that allows for the honest expression of feelings.
3. Continuing an active, ongoing relationship with God that involves worship and prayer.
4. Becoming aware of how various media - magazines, cable TV, videos, Internet, and catalogs - affect your sex drive.
Fulfilling these four requirements will allow you to love your God with all your strength and sexuality.
- Sun Nov 9, 2014
Why do we so easily mix in our own standards with God's? Why are we so soft in our choices regarding sexual sin?
Sometimes we're simply naive. Do you remember seeing the animated Disney classic Pinocchio when you were growing up? Pinocchio knew it was the right thing for all little boys to go to school. On his way there, however, he met some scoundrels who painted a wonderful picture of spending the day at a place called Pleasure Island, a sort of amusement park just offshore. They gave Pinocchio a free ticket on the ferry over, but he didn't know that at day's end all the boys would be turned into donkeys and be sold to pull carts in the coal mines for the rest of thier lives. Liikewise, we can be naive and foolish regarding God's standard for sexual purity as we stumble blindly into wrong "because everyone else is doing it."
But sometimes we choose wrong sexual standards not because we're naive, but simply because we're rebelious.
- Sat Nov 8, 2014
Now observe the church's feelings toward Jesus:
My lover [husband] is radiant and ruddy,
outstanding among ten thousand.
His head is purest gold;
his hair is wavy
and black as a raven...
His mouth is sweetness itself;
he is altogether lovely.
This is my lover, this is my friend...
I belong to my lover,
and his desire is for me...
Let us go early to the vineyards...
there I will give you my love.
The mandrakes send out their fragrance,
and at our door is every delicacy,
both new and old,
that I have stored up for you, my lover.
(SONG OF SONGS 5:10-11,16; 7:10,12-13)
Do you sense Jesus's desire for you as part of His Bride?
- Fri Nov 7, 2014
Perhaps you haven't even considered the purposes of God in you marriage in a while. Maybe you're experiencing a semblance of peace at home? After all, if the garage is fairly well organized, the bills are getting paid, and you're able to play a round of golf from time to time, why question things too much?
Well, you should, because a great marriage is more than those kinds of things. Are you bored with your marriage? Do you have a truce in you marital relationship but no deep oneness? Does male leadership in marriage confuse you and frustrate your wife? Is your wife failing to fulfill you sexually?
Great marriages may seem rare these days, but God didn't intend it that way. By God's way of thinking, a vibrant, cherishing, relationship is quite normal and should be quite common because, believe it or not, you already have what it takes to walk faithfully.