- Fri Nov 14, 2014
As spiritual leader in your home, what's your attitude toward your position? Countless men think their title of spiritual leader places them above scrutiny, and they refuse any kind of confrontation by their wives. Contrast this with the bondservant's attitude.
The bondservant once stood on the auction block of shame because of his own foolishness and sin. By grace, his master lovingly restored the tattered pieces of his life. Now the bondservant hates sin, especially his own, but when it affects the master who gave up so much for him, he hates it even more. He knows his master has every right to inspect him and confront him, for his sin affects the strength of his master's house and all who live there.
What's your mind-set? What's your attitude toward your sins, including anything that tramples the convictions and soul of your wife?
Does your wife have the right to question you about your actions? Or are you above question?
- Thu Nov 13, 2014
God loves it when we are connected to others, because He loves it when we are connected to Him. Did you know that we are directed by God to pursue others? To make these so-called connections we've been talking about? Here are some "get connected" scriptures:
- "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs, 27:6, NASB).
- "The eye can never say to the hand, "I don't need you." The head can't say to the feet, "I don't need you"" (1 Corinthians 12:21, NLT).
- "Pursue faith and love and peace, and enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts" (2 Timothy 2:22, NLT, emphasis added).
The apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthian men, "Stop acting like you don't need each other!" The author of Hebrews wrote that when we walk alongside people headed in the same direction, we can sustain our commitments. According to Proverbs, a good friend tells us what we need to hear, not what we want to hear. We are better men when we are connected.
- Wed Nov 12, 2014
Whether you've been naive, rebellious, or foolishly negligent in taking God's standard seriously, mixing in your own standards leads to being ensnared and even worse.
Because our own standards on sexual purity have been so mixed with God's, and since many Christians don't read their Bibles very often, many men have no clue about God's standard for sexual purity.
The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord. (1 CORINTHIANS 6:13)
You are to abstain from...sexual immorality. (ACTS 15:29)
Lord, I repent of having mixed my own
standards with Yours. Help me learn Your
standard for sexual purity and take it
seriously so that I will not be ensared by
my own foolishness.
- Tue Nov 11, 2014
In a perfect world the head of the home would be the most sensitive one in the house. Well, you already know this, but we don't live in a perfect world!
For most men, sensitivity does not come naturally. Guys just assume that if they are happy and satisfied, then their wives are happy and satisfied. So, while she thinks this selfish behavior should be obvious to him, it really isn't. Our wiring doesn't pick up signals like this very well.
Lord, You know my wife better than I do.
You know her heart and You know her
needs. Show me how to be sensitive to
her desires. Help me be aware of her
feelings that I might serve her better.
I know that in doing so, I am pleasing
- Mon Nov 10, 2014
The world hasn't yet seen what God can do with an army of men free of sexual fervers. You can remain pure so that you might qualify for such an army.
The four requirements necessary to stop masturbating are these:
1. Making a strong decision to no longer "stop short" of God's standards.
2. Joining an accountablity group that allows for the honest expression of feelings.
3. Continuing an active, ongoing relationship with God that involves worship and prayer.
4. Becoming aware of how various media - magazines, cable TV, videos, Internet, and catalogs - affect your sex drive.
Fulfilling these four requirements will allow you to love your God with all your strength and sexuality.