Daily Devotionals

  • By Every Man Ministries

Men are promised regular sexual release by Scripture.  But by the same token, women are promised that their husbands will treat them with honor and tenderness:

 

Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives,

and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with

you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

(1 PETER 3:7)

 

It’s been said that the Greek term for “weaker partner” can also be translated “fine china,” which is a better translation within the context of marriage.  How do you handle fine china?  With respect, as you tenderly appreciate and display its finest points.  You don’t slam fine china around or put it through the blast of a dishwasher. 

  • By Every Man Ministries

As Bathsheba was precious to Uriah (see 2 Samuel 11), your wife is your precious one, your only one.  She lives with you and lies in your arms.  She’s to be cherished, not because of what she does for you, but because of her essence, her value to God as a child born in His image.  You’ve been entrusted with the priceless essence of another human soul, so precious to God that at the foundation of the world he planned to pay His dearest price to buy her back again.

You owe it to God to cherish that essence.

 

Today, even if I don’t feel like it, I will

cherish my wife.  Since God loved me

before I was worthy, I can do nothing

less for her.

  • By Every Man Ministries

Rather than be perfect, businesses know it's enough to seem perfect to their customers.  By stopping short of perfection, they find a profitable balance between quality and costs.

To find this balance, they often look to their peers to discover the "best practices" of their industry: How far can we go and still seem perfect? By how far can we stop short?  Business find it profitable to stop short at the middle ground of excellence because perfection costs too much.

But is it profitable for Christians to stop short at the middle ground of excellence where costs are low, balanced somewhere between paganism and obedience?  Not at all!  While in business it's profitable to seem perfect, in the spiritual realm it's merely comfortable to seem perfect. It is never profitable.

Clearly, excellence isn't the same as obedience or perfection.  The search for excellence leaves us overwhelmingly vulnerable to snare after snare since it allows room for mixture.  The search for obedience or perfection does not.

Excellence is a mixed standard, while obedience is a fixed standard.  shoot for the fixed standard.

  • By Every Man Ministries

Father, teach me to pray as Thomas `a

Kempis did: "We must not, therefore,

despair when we are tempted but pray

to God with so much the more fervor, that

He may vouchsafe to help us in all 

tribulations, who, no doubt, according to 

the saying of St. Paul, will 'make such  

issue with the temptation, that we may

be able to bear it.' Let us, therefore,

humble our souls under the hand of

God in all temptations and tribulations,

for the humble in spirit He will save and

exalt."

(from The Imitation of Christ)

  • By Every Man Ministries

As spiritual leader in your home, what's your attitude toward your position?  Countless men think their title of spiritual leader places them above scrutiny, and they refuse any kind of confrontation by their wives.  Contrast this with the bondservant's attitude.

The bondservant once stood on the auction block of shame because of his own foolishness and sin.  By grace, his master lovingly restored the tattered pieces of his life.  Now the bondservant hates sin, especially his own, but when it affects the master who gave up so much for him, he hates it even more.  He knows his master has every right to inspect him and confront him, for his sin affects the strength of his master's house and all who live there.

What's your mind-set? What's your attitude toward your sins, including anything that tramples the convictions and soul of your wife?

Does your wife have the right to question you about your actions? Or are you above question?

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