- Sat Nov 22, 2014
If we're to set good examples in our home, then as servant leaders we must keep focused on the word servant. As Chief Servant, we are to give in more often at impasses than anyone else. No one should choose to inconvenience themselves more often than we do, and no one should have a better attitude in serving than ours.
Jesus taught us submission by laying down His life for the sake of our relationship with Him, even though we were sinners. That being said, we husbands must keep the proper emphasis on the word leader as well. Yes, our responsibility as husbands is to command the ship along the course we've set as a couple, and though we must often serve by submitting our rights for the sake of oneness, we must never forget our duty to lead the ship safely into harbor.
- Fri Nov 21, 2014
Someone once said, "The greatest weakness is to be conscious of none." It would be nice to know the guy's name so we could give him credit for helping us see why God has given us confession as a tool for spiritual growth. The Scriptures encourage honesst confession because it produces awesome results in the life of God's man.
When God said to the apostle Paul, "My power is made perfect in weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9), He was saying that when God's man is at his most vulnerable place, that's when God's pwer flows most freely toward him. Confession puts us in that place.
- Do you want more of God's power in your life?
- Do you want to deal Satan a right-hand straight to the jaw?
- Do you want people to trust you and be close to you?
- Do you want God to use you more?
Good. Then no secrets.
- Thu Nov 20, 2014
It’s not about “doing” more; it’s about being more. It’s not about pursuing a plan or responding to a cool idea or even to a dare. It’s that being God’s man is worth the risk. Why is that?
Doing more puts a man in control.
Being more puts God in control.
Doing more is a safe style for men.
Being more is risky.
Doing more implies there’s an end to it.
Being more is a process – fluid and unpredictable.
Doing more engenders spiritual pride.
Being more produces humility through surrender.
Doing more is about correcting behavior patterns.
Being more is about connecting with God’s character.
- Wed Nov 19, 2014
Being God’s man will never be easy, but those who have passed the test did so because they successfully overcame the opinions of others, successfully fought their own feelings and weaknesses of character, and successfully contended with spiritual opposition.
When others back off, the obedient press forward. When obstacles scare others away, the obedient look for a promise and stand on it. When others question God’s Word, the obedient risk taking God at His Word and leave the results to Him.
As Scripture says, “But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it – he will be blessed in what he does” (James 1:25).
- Tue Nov 18, 2014
Men are promised regular sexual release by Scripture. But by the same token, women are promised that their husbands will treat them with honor and tenderness:
Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives,
and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with
you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
(1 PETER 3:7)
It’s been said that the Greek term for “weaker partner” can also be translated “fine china,” which is a better translation within the context of marriage. How do you handle fine china? With respect, as you tenderly appreciate and display its finest points. You don’t slam fine china around or put it through the blast of a dishwasher.