The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. (I CORINTHIANS 7:4, emphasis added)
Your body is your wife’s prized possession, her only legitimate vessel of sexual satisfaction on the face of the earth. Your sexuality was created as much for her as it was for you.
Spouses should never wait until the situation is perfect or until their feelings are just right before moving ahead and doing the right thing in relational issues, especially regarding sex. The right feelings will generally follow the right actions soon enough. Besides, if we plan to love our wives as ourselves, we must make room for their needs and their intimacy. Attaining normal, sexual oneness calls for personal sacrifices–sacrifices that you may have to make.