To women, men always want more sex than they’re getting! But there’s more to it. Since your visual gratification now pours only from her, she’s looking very good to you. Perhaps you haven’t looked at her quite like this since you were newlyweds. While this sensation is vaguely pleasant to her, it can also be a tad jarring. Has he been taking aphrodisiacs? she wonders. She doesn’t quite know what to do, except to send you outside to play with the kids while she undresses in the master bathroom.
And it’s not just the looking. Once you’re winning the battle, you’ll be saying things you haven’t uttered for years like, “I can’t wait for tonight, baby.” All your imaginative creativity now blossoms upon your marriage bed, not in some fantasy world. You’ll be fully enamored with her!
Again, this is vaguely pleasant to her, but she’s also troubled. Where are these new ideas coming from? she may wonder. Has he been having an affair? What’s going on?
She’ll probably ask you what’s going on, and once she learns what’s cooking, you’ll both need to find a new sexual equilibrium.