If your wife had to live her life over again, would she choose to marry you again?
When your wife has confronted you six times about the same thing, and you still haven’t done anything to change your behavior, she feels you don’t care about her. You obviously must not care enough about her to fix something that’s hurting the relationship and stunting your Christian growth.
Humble yourself. Accept her role. She’s a great helpmate, the special person God had planned for you. If your wife says something, and you don’t like the attitude of how she says it, don’t demand that she button up, and please don’t tell her where to get off.
Instead, you button up. You pray about it. And while you are at it, listen to her and change!