If you’re in a long, drawn-out struggle with sexual differences between you and your wife, know that you aren’t alone. You’re not the first person to face those issues. God is there with you, and you can win the battle.
If you’re married, you’re called to make your body a living sacrifice and to lay it down for your wife. It couldn’t be any clearer than to say you must be there for her even if she can’t be there for you sexually. Even if her lack of availability is the result of sin on her part, that’s never a justification for sin or compromise on your part.
The expression may sound trite at times like this, but it’s true: “Just do the right thing.”