Did you ever wonder if you married the right person? Did you ever think that you might have missed God’s will in whom you should marry?
We’re so different! So what? Aren’t we all? Once this truth settles in, the climb to marital oneness seems impossible. We panic, sensing fraud: we may look for a way out of the deal. Yet Paul said in Romans 14 that compatibility isn’t at all necessary for unity.
Disputes and incompatibility are always going to exist in a marriage. This is why it’s necessary for you to be a leader with a soft heart, a man who can submit his rights for the sake of oneness.
One man regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to God. For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself; for if we live, we live for the Lord. (ROMANS 14:5-8., NASB)