Providing a lifetime soul mate is on God’s list, but how soon we’ll seem like soul mates on a day-to-day basis depends upon the softness of our hearts to His sanctification work, both inside and outside the bedroom. That’s part of God’s higher ways.
He wants happiness for you, but He also wants what is best for your marriage.
All too often we ignore God’s higher-ways point of view and miss His vision for our marriages, which He’s intended as our very own under-the-radar, no-headline, home mission field.
If your first concern is to look after yourself, you’ll
never find yourself. But if you forget about yourself
and look to me, you’ll find both yourself and me.
(MATTHEW 10:39, MSG)