Many say that total sexual fulfillment comes from total freedom, exploration of new things, and tons of creativity. But just as political freedom flourishes within the context of moral restraint and borders, sexual freedom and fulfillment can exist within the context of loving restraints and borders.
Why are borders so important? When we stay within the borders, we’re meeting the terms of sexual oneness. When we cross the borders, we aren’t.
It’s far better to respect the borders. You may have less variety, but within the borders your wife can give her full creativity and ingenuity. After all, people get very good at whatever they practice a lot.