As you get closer to the One who created you, you’ll pick up God’s higher-ways view of your marriage, and that’s vital. God doesn’t see marriage as an end in itself but as a restorative process for both of you, and He puts us in relationships like these to allow us to work out our sin so that we can be of more use to Him.
As you get closer to your Father, you will see things from His perspective, and you’ll find that God is asking you a favor, which is to pick up the iron and to apply the dressing to your husband’s life. God wants restoration because that’s what’s best and fair for your family.
Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means” ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (MATHEW 9:12)