Remember that your marriage is her call too. She simply has a differing role. Your leadership means allowing her to play her role freely. It doesn’t mean you have to be out in front all the time, making all the decisions. It means allowing the right gifts to surface at the right time in your marriage. It may mean allowing your wife’s gifts to predominate from time to time, especially if you’re married to a go-getter like the “Proverbs 31 woman.”
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.