Emotional Isolation
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. ––Matthew 11:28
The hard truth is that there is no such thing as emotionally satisfying self-sufficiency. There is only one with unlimited emotional resources: and you are not Him; you are in Him.
Jesus warns us, “‘No servant is greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you.” That includes isolating emotions. The hard truth is a relationship with Jesus Christ involves suffering. Sign me up! (said no one ever) It’s just like Jesus to keep it real even if it means fewer members. He accepts us as we are but loves us too much to leave us the way we are. Oh man, that’s awkward, but it’s a necessary part of reality and loving someone to health. Jesus has seen our movie––every frame.
It’s funny how we often read or quote Matthew 11:28 but leave out the next thing Jesus says:
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
We are not without a yoke, in other words. You know, one of those heavy wooden frames placed over the necks of two animals so they work as a team to pull a plow or wagon? Jesus doesn’t say “I will take your yoke (burden) away,” but that He will share the yoke with you and lighten your burden.
Nothing is lost in translation here. Jesus knows all the facts about our dark places. That is either terrifying or quite relieving. Which of those thoughts makes you love Him more? Now we don’t have to pretend or hide anything. The wonderful truth is that we are never or never will be separated from His encouragement––ever.
How does God’s man know his character is becoming more like Christ? He’s learned that an emotionally convenient and comfortable response is often the misleading one. He is guided by the Holy Spirit’s strong leadership, and finds truth in reality. When this happens, plenty more good stuff comes about in God’s man.
Who is carrying your burden? If you are doing it all by yourself, it’s exhausting, right? You don’t have to; ask Him to help you carry your burdens. He will be quick to respond, brother.
Father, thank You for reminding me that I have brothers to help me, and that You are there to lighten my burdens.
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John 15:20