You may think a pastor’s life is simply breezing in Sundays to teach, shaking some hands, smiling a lot then taking Mondays off before preparing for next week’s sermon. I mean, really, how hard can it be?

 

Pastors preach from the pulpit, pray for the needy, visit the sick, officiate weddings and funerals, lead-hire-and-fire staff, manage details and resources, strive for growth, create new events, counsel individuals, deepen their own walk while leading their own marriages and families, so most people think pastors don’t ever have problems. I call it the “pedestal effect.” Unfortunately, it places unrealistic expectations on us and creates unwanted loneliness. Both of these dynamics are the Devil’s playground.

 

Pastors Are People TooWhile the enemy plots to bring pastors down, men of the church need to provide a hedge of protection and encouragement to their spiritual leader.

 

After all, they’re God’s hired hands, right?

 

Here’s what pastors want you to know:

 

  1. 1.  We struggle with sin.

When the Bible says in Romans 3:23 that “…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God;” it includes pastors. Pastors are not exempt from temptation. The enemy knows our weaknesses and when we’re vulnerable. Jesus said in Matthew 26:41, “The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.” Pastors have fleshly desires, ambitious goals and pride. So here’s how you can help:

 

 

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  1. 2.  We’re not taught leadership and management in school.

Although some pastors may have taken some business classes in undergraduate school, their Master of Divinity is focused on the Bible. We are not trained at hiring, firing, managing “employees” and event details, deadlines and corporate growth. So here’s how you can help:

 

 

  1. 3.  We need friends and fun.

Being a pastor can be a lonely experience, despite ministering and serving people. It’s hard to relate to other men, when pastors are constantly under scrutiny. Pastors deal with serious life and death issues daily, and carry the burdens of many. Pastors are physically tired, emotionally drained, spiritually taxed, and financially stressed. So here’s how you can help:

 

 

  1. 4.  We are husbands and fathers with unique challenges.

Cultivating a happy marriage, while leading a congregation, takes serious effort. Raising “pastor’s kids” also demands unique support. Both the spouse and children can feel left out, deprived of attention and love that only a husband and father can give. This is often a juggling act with no audience. Pastors have the same pressures at home as other men, so here’s how you can help:

 

 

“Remember those who lead you, those who speak the Word of God to you.” (Hebrews 13:7. This is put there for men in the church because someone needs to be thinking about the guy who is always thinking of everyone else. Pastors are really good at giving their time, energy, empathy, study and knowledge. But they’re not very good at receiving. Maximize your pastor’s life by remembering they are people too.

 

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