God built male hardwiring on the basis that your sexuality is not really yours at all. Your sexuality was not created for you or for your pleasure but for your wife and for her pleasure. God never spoke of sexuality in the context of one in the Bible. He always spoke of it in the context of two.
In addition, your sexuality is a primary communication line for transmitting and receiving intimacy. When that line goes down, your emotional life shrivels, and the effects upon your marriage are disastrous.
Lord, I understand that my sexuality is not
really for me, but for my wife. I pray that
the hardwiring within me would promote
rather than destroy the intimacy You intended
for my marriage.