Sex has different meanings to men and women. Men primarily receive intimacy just before and during intercourse. Women gain intimacy through touching, sharing, hugging, and communication. Is it any wonder that the frequency of sex is less important to women than to men? Because of the differences between men and women, forming a satisfying sex life in marriage is hardly a slam dunk. It’s more like making a half-court shot.
Your purity must not depend upon your mate’s health or desire. God holds you responsible.
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. (HEBREWS 13:4)